My blog posts are usually about things that affect me directly, but today this is out of sheer frustration over an issue that I really don’t have much connection with, just empathy.
This morning’s major news story, especially in Texas, is Lance Armstrong’s attempt to end his decade long ordeal with the USADA. With no interest in cycling, no respect for chemically altered athletes, but admiration for the work Armstrong has done in recent years with his Live Strong Foundation, my initial reaction was that is probably best that the issue be laid to rest and Armstrong move on rather than continue to deplete his time and energy in what seems destined to be a lost cause.
I was still incensed that an organization with only contractual authority (many forget that the USADA is NOT federal agency) could take away awards given by a foreign entity on the hearsay of other competitors. That smacks of what is now called McCarthyism, which plagued such notables as Charlie Chaplin, Dashiell Hammet, Lena Horne, Robert Oppenheimer, Paul Robeson and countless other who did not survive the unfounded public slander of Joseph McCarthy.
Then, when less distracted, a few more issues came to mind. I ditched the social commentary and abridged newscasts and sought more information….. the judge’s actual ruling on the case that brought about Armstrong’s resignation. By the time I finished reading it, I had a whole new perspective on the issues at hand.
While it is a well founded suspicion that the USADA will strip him of his medals, the hearing on the charges have not happened. The court case was to nullify the agreement signed to submit such issues to arbitration. Once again someone is facing impending damages because they either unwittingly or when left with no other choice, agreed to binding arbitration. If you have never been through that process, let me enlighten you. Binding arbitration is a tool of companies to avoid legal expense and public exposure when there is a disagreement between parties. Due process is loosely abided by, if at all, and the odds are always in the company’s favor, not the individual’s. The court case was predominately about Armstrong trying to even the playing field by having the court nullify the agreement. And as no surprise to most people, the agreement was upheld. What was surprising was the judge’s admission that the expense of further court costs was a factor in that decision. The USADA has been spending funds as if there was no limit on anyone’s financing, but the judge was concerned about more tax dollars being on spent on a judicial hearing instead of a closed arbitration hearing.
The other issue at hand was one of jurisdiction. At the time of the competitions, the USADA did not govern American cyclists competing in anything other than the Olympics and Para-Olympics. Since that time agreements between the organizations have overlapped authority in regard to eligibility. The court ruling pointed out that the governing bodies for this sport have not settled on how to handle this issue, and given that the case is already declined due to the arbitration issue, there was no reason to proceed further.
Now that is my totally laymen’s explanation, and you can read through all the legal technicalities cited in the ruling, but for me it is clear why Armstrong has decided to step back and let things proceed.
First, he doesn’t have much choice until the arbitration hearings take place. Then if the USADA proves to be as unethical as their track record hints at, he can take action. But the point is there has to be proof of infractions committed by the USADA before legal action can be taken. You cannot sue someone because you know in their heart they are about to screw you over.
Secondly, while Armstrong’s retreat from the conflict this morning fueled those already convince of his guilt, it also garnered sympathy from others for an individual who accepted that sometimes there is more to be lost in continuing a battle than by taking a chance with surrender. Sometimes you have to reconsider the cost, even when you thought you picked your battle wisely.
Aside from whether or not Lance Armstrong used drugs he shouldn’t have while competing, aside from whether or not the USADA is pursuing this because they need to reinforce their mandate to stop doping, there is another issue that I think needs to be considered.
Why do we fault athletes for human flaws more than we honor them for what they can do far better than we could ever dream of doing ourselves?
Jim Thorpe was destroyed over having played SEMI-pro ball in an era when it was doubtful he could have earned a living any other way and he certainly was not getting assistance or training that anyone would have considered to be on a professional level.
Michael Phelps is under fire for someone else prematurely publishing an advertisement he made.
I know many a competitive swimmer that has asked why they can work as a Life Guard at a pool and retain their amateur status, but not teach a kid to swim so they won’t need a Life Guard to rescue them.
In none of these cases was the athlete given an unusually unfair advantage over their competitors, which SHOULD be the issue at hand. Even if Armstrong did everything he is accused of doing while competing in the Tour de France, it was an even playing field because, as the witnesses themselves have repeatedly stated, “EVERYONE was doing it.” Which, to me, means that the medals were not given to the wrong person; if anything, the race itself was a farce.
24 Aug 2012
16 Aug 2012
Too distracted or just incapable?
Are you so distracted by your gadgets you don’t know what is going on around you, or are you so self centered you don’t give a damn about anything beyond your own person?
There have always been people who just don’t think beyond the immediate ONE absolute priority in their life at any given moment; whether it be crippling chest pains or that one strand of hair that has fallen out of place.
I seem to have been blessed with more of these obtrusive obstacles than usual lately. Is there an Oblivious epidemic that is more virulent than the West Nile Virus going around? Has the proliferation of distractions reached the saturation point? Or am I just too damned lucky?
Even I am guilty of being the person in front of the elevator that ends up having to step aside to let someone off before I can get on. We are all subject to the dumb luck of waiting on the same side that the only passenger happened to stand on. So I don’t give it second though when my own exit involves a side step. But three people elbow to elbow, 6 inches in front of the door? Really, people, how did you expect to all entered at one time, even if I hadn’t been waiting to step off. And don’t just glare at me – one of you has to step back. It’s logistics, people!
Then there are the people walking along looking at their latest electronic leash instead of where they are going. The walk way is wide enough for 3 – 4 people and has two way traffic. In the U.S. we drive on the right side of thorough fares, and most of us walk that way too, except where there are cars and pedestrians sharing the same one. So why, when everyone else in front of you are keeping to the right and there are others approaching on the left, do you move to your left as you get closer? Do I know you? Are you trying to stop me for a conversation? You are slower than those around you, so you are not moving left to walk around anyone. LOOK UP! Watch where you are going! Why should I have to dodge you? The phrase use to be, if you can’t walk and chew gum at the same time; choose. These days it’s, if you can’t walk and text (or even talk) at the same time you need to stop one or the other.
But my all time favorite reached a pinnacle this morning; inspiring this tirade. My own mother used to be one of those infuriating people who walks through a door and stops. Stops while blocking the door they just came through for anyone that might be behind them trying to do the same. Even in elementary school I knew never to do this. Not only does it anger other people trying to use the doorway, you are liable to get knocked aside by a door (if it’s one on hinges), or by something worse – someone without my manners, who just shoves you out of their way. At the worst, when blockaded by these people in their own little world, I just glare and stomp past them. But today, I actually put a shoulder in to a man. Intentionally, no, but without any regret whatsoever. This large mass of sub-par intelligence stopped for a call on his cell phone at the top of an escalator. He not only was still on the metal grating where the escalator meets the flooring, he had not even stepped to one side. One half of his mass was blocking one half of where I was required to step as the elevator reached the top. I started to call to him before reaching his level, but decided to just simply step around the moron. But I misjudged the clearance and my shoulder hit the back of his arm – hopefully the one holding the cell phone to his ear. I don’t know because I didn’t not even look as I continued past him as if nothing happened. Trust me; it was in his best interest that I pretended to be the oblivious one at that moment. No one wanted to hear the dialogue regarding his action that was coursing (and cursing) through my mind.
Please, if you are able to stand and walk, but doing maxes out your ability to multitask, please don’t push your limits in public. Choices are hard to make sometimes, but for the sake of the rest of the public, practice walking and talking at the same on your own – in private!
There have always been people who just don’t think beyond the immediate ONE absolute priority in their life at any given moment; whether it be crippling chest pains or that one strand of hair that has fallen out of place.
I seem to have been blessed with more of these obtrusive obstacles than usual lately. Is there an Oblivious epidemic that is more virulent than the West Nile Virus going around? Has the proliferation of distractions reached the saturation point? Or am I just too damned lucky?
Even I am guilty of being the person in front of the elevator that ends up having to step aside to let someone off before I can get on. We are all subject to the dumb luck of waiting on the same side that the only passenger happened to stand on. So I don’t give it second though when my own exit involves a side step. But three people elbow to elbow, 6 inches in front of the door? Really, people, how did you expect to all entered at one time, even if I hadn’t been waiting to step off. And don’t just glare at me – one of you has to step back. It’s logistics, people!
Then there are the people walking along looking at their latest electronic leash instead of where they are going. The walk way is wide enough for 3 – 4 people and has two way traffic. In the U.S. we drive on the right side of thorough fares, and most of us walk that way too, except where there are cars and pedestrians sharing the same one. So why, when everyone else in front of you are keeping to the right and there are others approaching on the left, do you move to your left as you get closer? Do I know you? Are you trying to stop me for a conversation? You are slower than those around you, so you are not moving left to walk around anyone. LOOK UP! Watch where you are going! Why should I have to dodge you? The phrase use to be, if you can’t walk and chew gum at the same time; choose. These days it’s, if you can’t walk and text (or even talk) at the same time you need to stop one or the other.
But my all time favorite reached a pinnacle this morning; inspiring this tirade. My own mother used to be one of those infuriating people who walks through a door and stops. Stops while blocking the door they just came through for anyone that might be behind them trying to do the same. Even in elementary school I knew never to do this. Not only does it anger other people trying to use the doorway, you are liable to get knocked aside by a door (if it’s one on hinges), or by something worse – someone without my manners, who just shoves you out of their way. At the worst, when blockaded by these people in their own little world, I just glare and stomp past them. But today, I actually put a shoulder in to a man. Intentionally, no, but without any regret whatsoever. This large mass of sub-par intelligence stopped for a call on his cell phone at the top of an escalator. He not only was still on the metal grating where the escalator meets the flooring, he had not even stepped to one side. One half of his mass was blocking one half of where I was required to step as the elevator reached the top. I started to call to him before reaching his level, but decided to just simply step around the moron. But I misjudged the clearance and my shoulder hit the back of his arm – hopefully the one holding the cell phone to his ear. I don’t know because I didn’t not even look as I continued past him as if nothing happened. Trust me; it was in his best interest that I pretended to be the oblivious one at that moment. No one wanted to hear the dialogue regarding his action that was coursing (and cursing) through my mind.
Please, if you are able to stand and walk, but doing maxes out your ability to multitask, please don’t push your limits in public. Choices are hard to make sometimes, but for the sake of the rest of the public, practice walking and talking at the same on your own – in private!
21 May 2012
Impatience vs. Laziness
This classic battle has probably gone on throughout the entire history of mankind; between people and even within each person.
Recently my frustration with this conflict peaked and forced me to act. My mother always condemned my lack of patience, but these days I get praise for it. I would like to think that it was something I learned over time and acquired with maturity. But looking back over recent events, I question that. I accept that it is nothing I accomplished; intentionally or otherwise. Society changed; not me.
I am old enough to remember having to wait a week or more to hear from friends by mail. Having moved frequently I was very aware that it would take a few days for my letter to reach its destination, a day or two for a reply to be written, and then a few more days for their letter to travel to my new home. Today, even the mail only takes a fraction the time it did in the 1960’s to go from one side of the country to the other; on the rare occasions when we slow down enough to actually mail hand-written letters.
Not surprisingly the younger generations have come to expect immediacy – in everything. “Wait” has become an even fouler 4-letter word than those my mother threatened to wash out of my mouth with soap. But older generations have not been immune to the “NOW!” virus. We all wish “wait” was no longer even in our vocabulary at times, but making someone wait should not always be treated as a criminal act.
Savoring, creating, appreciating, understanding, all take time. They are valued largely because they take more time to accomplish. And because they require, time and patience, they are not easy and not everyone does them equally well. Taking the time to do something well should not be condemned as laziness or lack of commitment by those who must rely on others to accomplish such tasks. If they could do it better or quicker, they would most certainly have done it themselves. It’s just the way we are.
The impatient ones in our lives may not be solely to blame, though. We all have been lazy at times. I doubt anyone is unfamiliar with after having agreed to something, and then delaying because either we lost interest or actually disliked what was being asked of us. Because our pride, ego, or something else keeps us from speaking up and admitting we just don’t want to do something, others have learned to suspect this scenario any time things don’t happen as quickly as they expect. What the impatient person needs to learn, is to either ask if this is the problem, or accept that their time frame may not be the same as someone else’s and find a way to work with that; other than to lay blame and cause conflict.
Conflict, blame and misdirection wastes more time and effort than even the laziest person.
Recently my frustration with this conflict peaked and forced me to act. My mother always condemned my lack of patience, but these days I get praise for it. I would like to think that it was something I learned over time and acquired with maturity. But looking back over recent events, I question that. I accept that it is nothing I accomplished; intentionally or otherwise. Society changed; not me.
I am old enough to remember having to wait a week or more to hear from friends by mail. Having moved frequently I was very aware that it would take a few days for my letter to reach its destination, a day or two for a reply to be written, and then a few more days for their letter to travel to my new home. Today, even the mail only takes a fraction the time it did in the 1960’s to go from one side of the country to the other; on the rare occasions when we slow down enough to actually mail hand-written letters.
Not surprisingly the younger generations have come to expect immediacy – in everything. “Wait” has become an even fouler 4-letter word than those my mother threatened to wash out of my mouth with soap. But older generations have not been immune to the “NOW!” virus. We all wish “wait” was no longer even in our vocabulary at times, but making someone wait should not always be treated as a criminal act.
Savoring, creating, appreciating, understanding, all take time. They are valued largely because they take more time to accomplish. And because they require, time and patience, they are not easy and not everyone does them equally well. Taking the time to do something well should not be condemned as laziness or lack of commitment by those who must rely on others to accomplish such tasks. If they could do it better or quicker, they would most certainly have done it themselves. It’s just the way we are.
The impatient ones in our lives may not be solely to blame, though. We all have been lazy at times. I doubt anyone is unfamiliar with after having agreed to something, and then delaying because either we lost interest or actually disliked what was being asked of us. Because our pride, ego, or something else keeps us from speaking up and admitting we just don’t want to do something, others have learned to suspect this scenario any time things don’t happen as quickly as they expect. What the impatient person needs to learn, is to either ask if this is the problem, or accept that their time frame may not be the same as someone else’s and find a way to work with that; other than to lay blame and cause conflict.
Conflict, blame and misdirection wastes more time and effort than even the laziest person.
28 Mar 2012
Old School Manners
A brief and casual encounter with a friend that I really am not that close to or know all that well made me truly appreciate what some have learned to ignore, or worse ridicule.
I have always had an intellectual appreciation for the customs, manner, etiquette or whatever you choose to classify what my English nanny taught me as a child. At the time, I was not very appreciative, except when bribed with tea cakes and scones. No five year old tom-boy wants to sit in a straight backed chair, with her ankles crossed (demurely, she would say) and juggle teacups and saucers destined to be spilled on the dress worn only for such occasions. Nor would those who know me well expect me to sit quietly smiling (“seen and not heard”) while the adults discussed the matters of the day; even at that age.
Perhaps it was this early implantation of a sense decorum that made my early encounters with Japanese culture so appealing. If there was anyone whose manners were stricter than a 1950’s British matriarch, it had to be Japanese women. Of course, in later years I discover that there were even more Asian cultures that elevated similar images of the serene and graceful side of the female nature. I also discovered that such reverence is a double-edged sword; the other edge being obedient subservience. It is true even in the more subtle cultures of the West, where that sword has dulled the fastest.
My encounter the other night was no philosophical analysis of society. It was a friendly discussion over dinner that bore none of the traits I mentioned above. And yet a gesture, a comment, and simple words that probably know one else noticed has brought a smile to me for days and spurred this commentary.
The days when men held a woman’s chair, helped her with her coat, or opened car doors for her on a regular basis are a distant memory for some of us; and almost a freak of nature for younger generations. There was a time when it was habit; even an unconscious reflex for older men. Today, if done at all, it is almost a grand gesture. It is often a calculated move to impress a date, or worse, done only because a man knows the woman he is with demands it at the price of civility.
As I was escorted to a seat for dinner, my chair was pulled out and held for me. No surprise, it was the restaurant’s manager. About the only time one can expect such courtesy is from the staff of nicer restaurants. I noticed it, but promptly forgot it once seated.
A few minutes later, I decided to remove my jacket. As if appearing magically, gentle and skilled hands were helping off with the jacket. Not only was the gesture a surprise, but also the grace with which it was done. And I remembered the night we met and went bar hopping, he did the same for me and the other women present. He has not abandoned the manners he was taught in exchange for disregard or laziness.
I noticed as he and the friend who had joined us were fully engaged in conversation, he continued to include me in the conversation with his smiles, gestures and comments. And I was more than comfortable to sit and just listen and watch, though I was the one who had broached the topic under discussion. As I was mentally acknowledging his conversational skills (which sometimes abandon me entirely), I realized that this same talent is why the last man to inspire me is so appealing
To keep from embarrassing either of them here, I will not mention names. But gentleman, your affable nature and well honed etiquette charm me whenever you are around. There is truly something impressive in your blend of old school ways with modern sensibility that I cannot help but admire. It matters not whether we are discussing business, delving into political histories, or just indulging in our mutual appreciation for good food and drink, I always enjoy your company.
(Hopefully, they recognize themselves in my reference.)
I have always had an intellectual appreciation for the customs, manner, etiquette or whatever you choose to classify what my English nanny taught me as a child. At the time, I was not very appreciative, except when bribed with tea cakes and scones. No five year old tom-boy wants to sit in a straight backed chair, with her ankles crossed (demurely, she would say) and juggle teacups and saucers destined to be spilled on the dress worn only for such occasions. Nor would those who know me well expect me to sit quietly smiling (“seen and not heard”) while the adults discussed the matters of the day; even at that age.
Perhaps it was this early implantation of a sense decorum that made my early encounters with Japanese culture so appealing. If there was anyone whose manners were stricter than a 1950’s British matriarch, it had to be Japanese women. Of course, in later years I discover that there were even more Asian cultures that elevated similar images of the serene and graceful side of the female nature. I also discovered that such reverence is a double-edged sword; the other edge being obedient subservience. It is true even in the more subtle cultures of the West, where that sword has dulled the fastest.
My encounter the other night was no philosophical analysis of society. It was a friendly discussion over dinner that bore none of the traits I mentioned above. And yet a gesture, a comment, and simple words that probably know one else noticed has brought a smile to me for days and spurred this commentary.
The days when men held a woman’s chair, helped her with her coat, or opened car doors for her on a regular basis are a distant memory for some of us; and almost a freak of nature for younger generations. There was a time when it was habit; even an unconscious reflex for older men. Today, if done at all, it is almost a grand gesture. It is often a calculated move to impress a date, or worse, done only because a man knows the woman he is with demands it at the price of civility.
As I was escorted to a seat for dinner, my chair was pulled out and held for me. No surprise, it was the restaurant’s manager. About the only time one can expect such courtesy is from the staff of nicer restaurants. I noticed it, but promptly forgot it once seated.
A few minutes later, I decided to remove my jacket. As if appearing magically, gentle and skilled hands were helping off with the jacket. Not only was the gesture a surprise, but also the grace with which it was done. And I remembered the night we met and went bar hopping, he did the same for me and the other women present. He has not abandoned the manners he was taught in exchange for disregard or laziness.
I noticed as he and the friend who had joined us were fully engaged in conversation, he continued to include me in the conversation with his smiles, gestures and comments. And I was more than comfortable to sit and just listen and watch, though I was the one who had broached the topic under discussion. As I was mentally acknowledging his conversational skills (which sometimes abandon me entirely), I realized that this same talent is why the last man to inspire me is so appealing
To keep from embarrassing either of them here, I will not mention names. But gentleman, your affable nature and well honed etiquette charm me whenever you are around. There is truly something impressive in your blend of old school ways with modern sensibility that I cannot help but admire. It matters not whether we are discussing business, delving into political histories, or just indulging in our mutual appreciation for good food and drink, I always enjoy your company.
(Hopefully, they recognize themselves in my reference.)
15 Feb 2012
Failure to Communicate
Miscommunication happens; it’s a fact of life. It’s something we should make honest efforts to avoid, but also learn to accept that it happens, fix the problem(s) it caused and move on. Simple enough.
There are two contributors to this aggravation that seems to peak when ages or cultures mix, and for which there is very little excuse. When did we become a nation of mumblers? We have always been prone to not listening – the largest single contributor to the never ending plague of miscommunication – which we are all guilty of at times and need to work on. But not speaking clearly is inexcusable, unless you have some physical impairment.
I remember as a child having my parents tell me to “stop mumbling!” In my world that phrase was doomed to be followed by some sort of punishment. Not because of my failure to speak clearly, but because the only reason I ever mumbled was because I was admitting to doing something wrong. In my little mind I had the mistaken belief that said parent would hear only part of what I muttered and just let things slide. My garbled, but contrite confession would be enough, even if they didn’t know exactly what the infraction was. I can’t imagine where I came up with such a fantasy. To the contrary, the delay in understanding only irked the adult even more.
And today, as an adult, I have come to realize just how irksome it is communicating with someone who does not enunciate or whose voice is muffled, regardless of the reason. Not long ago I encountered this problem so many times in one day that I began to wonder if I might be losing my hearing. My days with rock bands and hours of cranking up bombastic symphonies over earphones certainly upped the odds for nerve damage. I admit that ambient noise is a problem for me at times. Certain machines have pitches that override my ability to hear human speech; just another fact of life for many of my generation. (And probably even more of an issue for generations to come.) It is also common as we age to begin losing the ability to hear higher pitches, such as women’s voices. Of course sometimes we women mistake selective hearing for this sort of hearing loss when it comes to the men in our lives, but that is another issue we may expound upon some other time. Taking all this into account and being one who has always endorsed preventive medicine, I made an appointment to have my hearing tested.
While I waited to have my ears checked I began paying closer attention to what I could or could not hear. I quickly realized the only time I could not hear something clearly, was when someone was speaking. I still listened to the TV at the same volume; even lower at times. When there was not a fan, copier or printer running between me and the rest of the office, I could hear almost everything. I also noticed that the clerks and others I had trouble hearing always spoke with their heads down. Not that I can read lips, but their voices were projecting downward, not toward me. More importantly, I was not the only one struggling to understand what they said. Other people were leaning closer, asking them to repeat, or even nodding and then turning to someone else for information. It was not my hearing, but their speaking that was inadequate.
With the thought of writing this, I asked myself whether I just notice this more because of my age or are people just not learning diction and projection anymore. Generations always criticize the next generation for what they perceive as shortcomings, so my aggravation is likely to have that influence, but I don’t think that invalidates the observation. The younger the person, the more likely they seem to not speak clearly. This is not because of difficulty with the language; their vocabulary and pronunciation is no worse than my generation and in some communities, it’s even better. But with the crunch to get more and more information into students and using writing and graphic illustration more than we used to for getting ideas across, instead of speaking to individuals and groups in person, I wonder if we are overlooking the practice speaking that used to be part and parcel to education at all levels.
When I am faced with someone fresh out of school, be it high school or college, and they do not speak clearly, I can’t help but wonder if I should dust off that certificate that says I can teach Speech (as in public speaking and debate) and see if I can’t make more of a difference in a classroom somewhere. I just wish one semester of Speech was required in order to graduate from high school, like the health and civic classes. One semester would enough to teach teenagers how to speak clearly and convincingly to others, without “gettin in their face”, so they could keep pace, once they are out in this place, called the real world.
There are two contributors to this aggravation that seems to peak when ages or cultures mix, and for which there is very little excuse. When did we become a nation of mumblers? We have always been prone to not listening – the largest single contributor to the never ending plague of miscommunication – which we are all guilty of at times and need to work on. But not speaking clearly is inexcusable, unless you have some physical impairment.
I remember as a child having my parents tell me to “stop mumbling!” In my world that phrase was doomed to be followed by some sort of punishment. Not because of my failure to speak clearly, but because the only reason I ever mumbled was because I was admitting to doing something wrong. In my little mind I had the mistaken belief that said parent would hear only part of what I muttered and just let things slide. My garbled, but contrite confession would be enough, even if they didn’t know exactly what the infraction was. I can’t imagine where I came up with such a fantasy. To the contrary, the delay in understanding only irked the adult even more.
And today, as an adult, I have come to realize just how irksome it is communicating with someone who does not enunciate or whose voice is muffled, regardless of the reason. Not long ago I encountered this problem so many times in one day that I began to wonder if I might be losing my hearing. My days with rock bands and hours of cranking up bombastic symphonies over earphones certainly upped the odds for nerve damage. I admit that ambient noise is a problem for me at times. Certain machines have pitches that override my ability to hear human speech; just another fact of life for many of my generation. (And probably even more of an issue for generations to come.) It is also common as we age to begin losing the ability to hear higher pitches, such as women’s voices. Of course sometimes we women mistake selective hearing for this sort of hearing loss when it comes to the men in our lives, but that is another issue we may expound upon some other time. Taking all this into account and being one who has always endorsed preventive medicine, I made an appointment to have my hearing tested.
While I waited to have my ears checked I began paying closer attention to what I could or could not hear. I quickly realized the only time I could not hear something clearly, was when someone was speaking. I still listened to the TV at the same volume; even lower at times. When there was not a fan, copier or printer running between me and the rest of the office, I could hear almost everything. I also noticed that the clerks and others I had trouble hearing always spoke with their heads down. Not that I can read lips, but their voices were projecting downward, not toward me. More importantly, I was not the only one struggling to understand what they said. Other people were leaning closer, asking them to repeat, or even nodding and then turning to someone else for information. It was not my hearing, but their speaking that was inadequate.
With the thought of writing this, I asked myself whether I just notice this more because of my age or are people just not learning diction and projection anymore. Generations always criticize the next generation for what they perceive as shortcomings, so my aggravation is likely to have that influence, but I don’t think that invalidates the observation. The younger the person, the more likely they seem to not speak clearly. This is not because of difficulty with the language; their vocabulary and pronunciation is no worse than my generation and in some communities, it’s even better. But with the crunch to get more and more information into students and using writing and graphic illustration more than we used to for getting ideas across, instead of speaking to individuals and groups in person, I wonder if we are overlooking the practice speaking that used to be part and parcel to education at all levels.
When I am faced with someone fresh out of school, be it high school or college, and they do not speak clearly, I can’t help but wonder if I should dust off that certificate that says I can teach Speech (as in public speaking and debate) and see if I can’t make more of a difference in a classroom somewhere. I just wish one semester of Speech was required in order to graduate from high school, like the health and civic classes. One semester would enough to teach teenagers how to speak clearly and convincingly to others, without “gettin in their face”, so they could keep pace, once they are out in this place, called the real world.
28 Dec 2011
My Review of Roku 2 XS Streaming Player
Adds an enhanced remote for playing games, plus extra connectivity options.
Rock Rocks!
By Taln SG from Dallas, TX on 12/28/2011
Pros: Compact, Easy to set up, High quality picture, Built in Wi-Fi, Video selection, Angry Birds, Easy to use, Reliability, Mahjong, Korean Dramas, Great value
Cons: Need more Asian channels, Want more video choices
Best Uses: Secondary TV, Bedroom, Living room, Primary TV
Describe Yourself: Movie buff, Early adopter, Netflix fan, Power User, Foreign movie buff - Asia
The basic model is still fine for my lazing in bed watching movies once the broadcast TV channels have all turned to Infomercial Central, but the 2 XS is for finally using my HDMI and indulging my limited interest in gaming.
As for service, it's always been good, but recently when Drama Fever's subtitles suddenly vanished, Roku was quick to check out the problem and work with the channel's techs to get things back in order, rather than leave me to deal with both companies separately.
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